HOW TO LIVE A SECLUDED LIFE OF VICTORY

In life, there are times you have to be alone. When that happens, do not while away your time but be productive and aspire for a better tomorrow. 

The following are some of the ways to live a secluded life of victory.

1. Reject bad ideas

Irrespective of where they are coming from, do not let bad ideas ruin your life. No matter what you think, you are more likely to produce better results with betters ideas. So, always go for the best.

2. feel free to say no

It is your right. If what is being suggested to you is bad, you can vehemently object to it. Do not be coerced into doing what is evil. 

3. follow wise people (not acclaimed ones)

I don't know where to meet them but you can try looking in the streets or the family but one thing is sure: they exist. Do not while away your time with people who have no dreams but endeavour to increase in knowledge and wisdom by walking with people who have something tangible to offer and not violence.

4. Love yourself

That's the first rule. You can't love your neighbour when you don't love yourself. Start by being nice on yourself then upgrade to wishing yourself more success. Then, work on a achieving it.

5. Differentiate between bad and good

If you lack this ability, then it means that the conscience in you travelled or is then. 

6. Always have good words to say

There are situations in which you really need to offer words of encouragement or listen. Do not ruin those moments.

 7. Think before you speak

Not everybody has the ability to do this! If you have it, kindly retain it and if need be, think twice before you utter a word. 

To avoid encouraging violence and prejudice, you must make the wisest choice of words to be spoken at each moment. If you don't have it, learn it. Knowledge is an art, do not stop learning. So long as you have good words to offer, do not remain mute. Inquire of the actual cause of matters before you jump into them! 

8. Avoid hot situations

No matter how you tend to be angry, do not be caught on rampage! If possible, seek peace before it is too late. Peace is good for everybody, do not deny it. 

9. Be genuinely concerned

You may not have the solutions at the moment but if you're concern, you may decide to brainstorm. When you're alone, think of ways to help the world overcome hunger, overcome extreme poverty and overcome being hopeless. In that way, you are creating a conducive environmental for you to thrive in and have a secluded life of victory without much ado, keep being fit! 

10. Ride on the shoulders of experienced people

I don't know how many times you might have heard this but it is true. Experience is the best teacher. Do not let bad things happen to you but learn from those they have already happened to and improve. You can't pass through all the waters in the world but you can ask people who have been there. We can know the taste of a meal when the person eating it radiates a smile or squeezes his or her face!  

 11. Seek results

No matter what happens, do not settle for less. Seek positive results for all the efforts that you have put in to make a system work. So long as you have put in positive ideas at the beginning, expect positive outcome.

12. Find money

I don't know how best to say this: money is important. I guess that you have known it. So, let this sound as a reminder instead of a command to you and to everybody around you whom you so much care about to share this with.

13. Keep good friends

Good friends are more of an asset than liabilities. Choose them wisely. They could be there for you in times of trouble!

14. Feel free to speak out! 

Do not underrate the power of being outspoken. Many have changed the world with it.  Think about a situation that seems hopeless and proffer solutions. 

In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.